A
weekend full of all granddaughters experience is never a bad thing but this one
ended with us down a granddaughter at our place for the first time in a week,
so a net loss. Saturday morning we mounted up to return the BRS to her parental
care. There was first the inevitable I-495 summer weekend traffic to pass
through. I can’t complain because my Favorite Son did it twice the weekend
before when he delivered the BRS to our care, but I’m still going to. There are
way too many people around and they all seemed to be on I-495 on Saturday. We
reached my son’s abode to find BR3 in high anticipation for her sister’s return.
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All Three Together! |
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Trying to do my Morning Ab Workout With These Two |
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And They Act Tired! |
Riggins,
the family dog, was also a big winner as he immediately came under the FBR’s
serial petting fixation. She’s all about dogs despite her parents’ feline
inclinations. There were two very happy grandparents since we had all tree granddaughters
in the same location. I made a serious tactical error when I showed the BRS and
FBR I could push their electric car when the battery died. That was the most
serious cardio workout I’ve had in a while. I would get up a head of steam and
whomever was driving would choose that moment to make a radical turn with the
steering wheel. I came very close to having to execute my very rusty parachute
landing fall skills on several occasions.
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Son, With Tiara In Place ,Bravely Making Brownies with 3 Assistants |
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Abuela Time |
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FBR and Riggins |
The
granddaughters also declared I was their go to
source for swing pushing. I was dashing between all three trying to keep them all
elevated to acceptable levels even though both the BRS and FBR know how to keep
their swing going without my help. It became a point of personal honor that the
swing had to come from Grandpa if one received a push from me, so I blame BR3,
the only one who really needed my help. The two oldest granddaughters halved my
effort when they figured out how to both mount the same swing. That wasn’t
without issue though as I had to be really alert to avoid high speed feet
coming at me. Being a grandfather is all about agility, apparently.
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The 3 Granddaughter Swing Push |
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The Electric Car |
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Grandpa Powered |
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C'Mon Grandpa, You Should have Anticipated that Turn |
After
building some soon to be destroyed sand castles in the sand box, I was escorted
inside where the granddaughters proceeded to paint both their abuela’s and my
son’s nails. I demurred saying I was too tired. That excuse lasted until they
grew insistent and I cannot deny them anything so I was soon having my nails
painted for the first and hopefully only time in my life. My Favorite Panamanian
opined that the contrast between the yellow, blue, and pink nails was a
particularly fetching look for me.
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BRS and FBR Swinging Together |
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Grandpa Dodging Feet |
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Grandpa Getting Nails Done |
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A True Fashion Explosion |
It
was very cool to see the FBR and BR3 striking up a close relationship. BR3 was
extremely fascinated in this older gal who wanted to be her friend. The BRS wasn’t
as big a fan since she had been the only game in the FBR’s world for the past
week. They worked it out however and were all very cousinly by the time Sunday
morning and we had to depart. We’d tried to give my son a break in the morning
by allowing him to catch a couple hours sleep and a shower while we squired the
granddaughters through their machinations. The ABFA was away for a well earned “Goddess
Weekend” with one of her cousins. Cousins, the gift that just keeps giving, all
life long.
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FBR and BR3 Bonding |
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Riggins with his Fan Club |
We
returned home to a dramatically quieter house. One granddaughter, even the
redoubtable FBR, cannot be expected to maintain the noise levels achieved
earlier in the week with both she and the BRS present. We had a special birthday
party to attend last night so Great Aunt nobly volunteered to come up and
babysit. To say the FBR was psyched would be putting it mildly. She had visions
of increased screen time (their special thing) dancing in her head. While
awaiting that arrival she and I filled the pool once again. While we were
waiting for the pool to fill, the FBR and I sat out on Deckzilla and talked.
Out of the blue she asked me what a blog was. I told her I was chronicling our
time together so she could read it when she was older and remember me. She then
said, “That means I can read it to my kids”. I thought my heart would burst and
I told her that
I hoped she would tell
her kids about me and abuela. She assured me that she would. I was then beset
with a lot of dust motes in both eyes.
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FBR Re-Filling Pool |
Great
Aunt also brought along Remy, her lab, so the FBR was able to fully enjoy her
canine fixation for another day. This along with the aforementioned screen
time. She and Great Aunt participate in this online game where Great Aunt accumulates
thousands of points and when she and the FBR get together the FBR spends them
all. It’s all a bit symbiotic, but they both revel in the time together. The
only phone call we received while Great Aunt was babysitting was to ask where
we kept out charging devices since they had already burned through the battery
life of Great Aunt’s iPad.
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Mafia Table Last Night |
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Wife Finally Taking a Break from the Dance Floor |
The
birthday party was for a member of the Panamanian Mafia and was held at what is
rapidly becoming our “go to” hang out, the Auburn VFW post. The usual gang
assembled led by the Neighborhood Mafiosos so a good time and a lot of dancing
were inevitable. Both my Favorite Panamanian and I realized our energy levels
were not where they usually were since the infusion of granddaughter care responsibilities
but we still managed to hold our own on the dance floor. We returned home to
find the door to the FBR’s room wide open. She admitted this morning that she
had tricked Great Aunt by saying that was how we did it each night.
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FBR (face in screen) This Morning with Great Aunt and Remy |
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Being Chased by Remy Through the Kitchen |
Since
it wasn’t quite eleven o’clock yet and both Great Aunt and I are dedicated
night owls, I offered to improve her pop culture education by showing her
Deadpool (I know – incredible that she hadn’t seen it). That was a lot of fun
as we laughed into the wee hours. We had a very nice time this morning before Great
Aunt had to return home. We talked for a long time on Deckzilla while the FBR
and Remy continued their bonding. The talk inevitably turned to Soxfather and
how much we miss him. It was a good thing though as it gave us a chance to
acknowledge how lucky we are to still have him permeating our thoughts.
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Remy Tired First |
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A Girl and her Dog |
One
movie fell in my A-Z effort, a keeper, The A-Team (much better than the TV show
ever was). Oh, and I guess we can count Deadpool (a top 100) as well, although
out of order.
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RECURRING CHARACTERS:
ABFA – Amazing Best Family
Athlete - my daughter
in law; BR3 – Blog Reader #3 – granddaughter
#3; BRS - Blog Reader the Sequel -
second granddaughter; Cantankerous Friend – friend since grade school who likes to argue
about everything, poses as radical leftist to attract women; Curbside Girls – close friends of my
daughter acquired during her single days in Brooklyn; Deckzilla – our backyard deck which grew to monstrous dimensions
once my wife got involved in planning; Favorite
Panamanian - the wife (of course); FBR
- First Blog Reader - first granddaughter; First Friday – celebrations to mark the First Friday of the Week; Great Aunt - my elder sister; Keene Friends 1 & 2 – friends since
high school from my home town of Keene, NH; Kindergarten Friend – friend since kindergarten whom I reunited
with after many years; Maine and
Virginia Musqueteras – two close friends of my wife – her US sisters, my
wife is the 3rd musquetera (musketeer); Namesake Nephew – son of Great Aunt and
Soxfather named after me; Neighborhood
Mafioso - wife's close friend and Panamanian mafia member; PanaGals – female relatives /friends of
my wife from Panama; Panamanian/Latin
Mafia – inevitable group of Latino friends my wife accumulates wherever we
have lived & their spouses; Pittsburgh
College Roommate– high school friend, also a “Minor Celebrity” in
Pittsburgh; Riggins - also known as
the Grandpuppy, son's dog; Soxfather
- my brother in law; Tia Loca – wife’s younger sister; Wingman – my
son in law; Wingmom – Wingman’s
mom, of course
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