Sunday, April 21, 2024

Returns Weekend

I’m still adjusting to having to wear long pants, shoes, and socks again. It’s a process. I finally finished unpacking early Saturday morning. For my Favorite Panamanian, well, it’s yet another process. We’re hoping by early this week her unpacking will finish. Family and friends have made our return to the States everything we could have hoped for. On our way to the grocery store on Friday we stopped off at the Neighborhood Mafioso’s house to report our return. She wasn’t home but her husband promised to pass our news on. We were on our third aisle in the supermarket when she called and a couple moments later, we were invited to join them and another couple friends for a night of dancing at the Auburn Legion Post.

Fun Friday Night Group

With my Dance Partner
I was a little concerned the injured foot would limit my mobility when it came to dancing. My Favorite Panamanian opined that it would keep me from bouncing around too much which she has tried to curb opposite me on dance floors for nearly a half century. It was too much fun hanging with these good friends again. It certainly softened the blow of leaving the great friends we have in Panama behind. That recovery was further embellished Saturday when we drove up to New Hampshire to link up with my son and his family. Getting there was a little educational as I found myself driving in an environment where most traffic laws are respected (I haven’t been to Rhode Island yet). This is in direct contrast to where I’ve been driving for the last four months. In Panama, it is survival of the fittest where every stop sign is treated as a pick-up game of chicken to see who will actually slow down, God forbid actually stop. 

Obligatory Gifts from Abuela Upon Arrival

BR3 Demonstrating Gymnastics Progress
Having the BRS and BR3 charging across the driveway to deliver granddaughter hugs completed the feeling of being home again. I just wished the FBR and her parental units weren’t so far away. I made a rookie tactical error with mother day gifting. My Favorite Panamanian is a recognized master of the shopping art and there we were, in her tax-free shopping heaven. My error, telling her to go shopping and pick out whatever she wanted for Mother’s Day gifts. The ABFA and BRS accompanied her. My son and I were left at home to frolic (okay, that was mostly BR3) in the backyard, prepping for an evening bonfire. I received a call from my Favorite Panamanian where she apologized for the damage she was doing. She revealed that, much like her cousin the FBR, the BRS had inherited her abuela’s shopping genes and was a huge help in the acquisition phase. When my wife told me how much she was spending, my son overheard and was laughing his head off at my predicament. His laughter came to a screeching halt when he received a text from the ABFA who had overheard my wife’s end of the conversation and admitted she was outdoing her mother-in-law.

Neighbor's Flowering Trees Begged for Photos



They returned for an excellent steak dinner followed by the aforementioned back yard fire. The BRS inherited something from me as well, she is the family fire bug as she got my pyromaniacal genes. She assumed control of the s’more’s construction, ably assisted by her fellow chocaholic, the ABFA. The sun was still up as we circled the fire, trying (unsuccessfully) to stay away from the smoke emitted. The granddaughters headed up to bed while my son and I descended into his massive home theater to watch the Bruins playoff game while my wife and the ABFA set up to watch a concert movie by Travis Kelce’s girlfriend. I think we won that tradeoff.

S'More's Boss

BR3 Ready

Son and his Fam

BR3 Giving her Abuela Pointers

Those Trees Again

Mother, Son, Daughter

ABFA and BRS
This morning’s wakeup featured the requisite hojaldras where the BRS once again asserted her dominance as the family hojaldra queen. Somehow, and I still trying to figure out how she did it, my Favorite Panamanian convinced everyone to join her for Sunday mass. The ladies looked thoroughly fetching in their Sunday garb. BR3 came up to me to show me her dress and told me, “I know. I look very cute in this.” The granddaughters handled the service with aplomb and we decided to celebrate with lunch at the nearby 110 Grill.  My son had declared the ladies were restricted to one rest room visit. This was needed as the last time we were there, the ABFA spent more time escorting them to the lady’s room than at the table. The BRS took on the role of advocate protesting her dad’s ruling to no avail. They both snuck in an extra visit, the ABFA is a softy. It was a very fun weekend with this bunch and, once again, cementing the feelings of being home.

Ladies in Front of the ABFA's Daffodils

Riggins Keeping on Eye on his Charges

Sunday Lunch

BR3 Celebrating Bike Day at School on Friday

With her Mom
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RECURRING CHARACTERS:                                     

ABFA – Amazing Best Family Athlete - my daughter in law; BR3 – Blog Reader #3 – granddaughter #3; BRS - Blog Reader the Sequel - second granddaughter; Cantankerous Friend – friend since grade school who likes to argue about everything, poses as radical leftist to attract women; CRC - Connecticut Riverboat Captain – another close friend from high school, renowned sailor of the big river; Curbside Girls – close friends of my daughter acquired during him her single days in Brooklyn; Deckzilla – our backyard deck which grew to monstrous dimensions once my wife got involved in planning; Favorite Panamanian - the wife (of course); FBR - First Blog Reader - first granddaughter; First Friday – celebrations to mark the First Friday of the Week; Great Aunt - my elder sister; Keene Friends 1 & 2 – friends since high school from my home town of Keene, NH; Kindergarten Friend – friend since kindergarten whom I reunited with after many years; Maine and Virginia Musqueteras – two close friends of my wife – her US sisters, my wife is the 3rd Musquetera (musketeer); Namesake Nephew – son of Great Aunt and Soxfather named after me; Neighborhood Mafioso - wife's close friend and Panamanian mafia member; PanaGals – female relatives /friends of my wife from Panama; Panamanian/Latin Mafia – inevitable group of Latino friends my wife accumulates wherever we have lived & their spouses; PCR - Pittsburgh College Roommate – high school friend, also a “Minor Celebrity” in Pittsburgh; PCR+1 - Pittsburgh College Roommate’s wife; Riggins - also known as the Grandpuppy, son's dog; Seis Amigos - two couples from our condo complex and my wife and I; Soxfather – my brother in law; Tia Loca – wife’s younger sister; Wingman – my son in law; Wingmom – Wingman’s mom, of course

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