Sunday, May 28, 2023

Culturefied

Those of you out there who claim I don’t have a cultured bone in my body (like the guy writing this), I’ll have you know I spent a couple hours perusing an actual art gallery yesterday. So there. More on that later, my day of hoity toity had to wait for the proper recognition of the First Friday of the Week. In what is rapidly becoming a cherished standard for First Friday, post-pandemic (how cool is saying that and having it be real) was another very fun night at the Auburn American Legion Post with the Neighborhood Mafioso and another couple. My Favorite Panamanian was making noises about going to a more high-class place but I held out for this new favorite and was very glad I did. There is just no substitute for hanging out with good friends. You throw in rock music and a healthy supply of Coors Lite and now we’re talking. It didn’t hurt they we were also amongst the youngest people there, that’s a rare accomplishment these days.

The Very Fun Friday Night Table

Mafiosos on the Dance Floor
I was a little disconcerted that the advertised “band” was only a duet. A key component of validating my choice of the Legion Hall, at least with a certain Panamanian, would be dancing and I was dubious a duo would be up to the task. They were. They played some of the best music we’ve heard there and included a saxophone, my personal favorite in rock music. Yes, Boss Bruce, I’m looking at you. I decided to forego the usual Friday pizza at home because I was “jonesing” for the prime rib I’d noticed on the menu the week before. I was therefore a little crushed when the menu had changed and no prime rib was offered. I made do with steak tips but I was a little surprised when they put the plate in front of me, weirdest steak tips I’d ever seen. I was almost finished with the dinner when we discovered I’d actually been eating my friend’s pork dinner. We made this discovery when he took delivery of my steak tips. He didn’t want those and while I was eating that second entrée, the kitchen staff was scrambling to create another pork dinner for him. Two dinners for the price of one, beats pizza.

Admiring the Impressionists

My Cultural Guides

The Roman Mosaic
Apparently a few First Fridays ago I agreed to escort Great Aunt, Soxfather’s sister-in-law and my Favorite Panamanian to the Worcester art museum (WAM). I had no memory of this promise, that happens a lot on late Fridays, for some reason. I can understand how it happened, I’m usually in a really good mood during that time period. The Rhode Islanders showed up late Saturday morning and we were off to the WAM. The Worcester art museum has a world class collection and while I’ve driven by it literally hundreds of times this is only the second time I’ve visited it. Okay so not scoring many culture points, am I? Great Aunt appeared concerned I wasn’t enjoying it as the ladies were swooning over a special display of impressionists.

Favorite Panamanian

Example of 600 Year old Striking Colors
In actuality I was having a good time. I love history and there was plenty of that on display. The WAM absorbed the Higgins Armor Museum collection years ago and as I was paying for our entry there was a demonstration of pike warfare going on in a nearby courtyard. I’m no art lover but I’m still astounded by paintings that are over 600 years old and still bear the striking colors the original artist bestowed upon them. I always think about what that painting has seen over those six hundred years before ending up hanging from a wall in Worcester, Massachusetts. It was a fun afternoon perusing the vast collection. It included some artifacts from the Roman Empire, my favorite historical epoch, including a full mosaic floor.

Entering Brew City - Open Fridays!!!
I was cultured out and the knee was barking a bit after spending a few hours upright following a night of dancing (even with the knee brace on the right leg) when I suggested a lunch break. We ended up at that old First Friday favorite locale, Brew City. I hadn’t been there in a couple years but was immediately recognized by our waitress which made me feel right at home. I noticed a sign in the door saying Brew City was now open on Friday afternoons for the first time since the pandemic so First Fridays there are once again possible. I would therefore categorize my cultured Saturday a complete success, not so much for the art, but because of the chance to hang with these three ladies.

I’m seeing a lot of Memorial Day messages online and this one really struck me. The attached video was really special. I conducted a couple hundred funerals at Arlington National Cemetery when I was assigned to the Old Guard and the playing of taps always got to me, just as this “new” song based on that classic does:

About six miles from Maastricht, in the Netherlands, lie buried 8,301 American soldiers who died in "Operation Market Garden" in the battles to liberate Holland in the fall and winter of 1944. Every one of the men buried in the cemetery, as well as those in the Canadian and British military cemeteries have been adopted by a Dutch family who minds the grave, decorates it, and keeps alive the memory of the soldier they have adopted. It is even the custom to keep a portrait of "their" American soldier in a place of honor in their home. Annually, on "Liberation Day," memorial services are held for "the men who died to liberate Holland." The day concludes with a concert. The final piece is always "Il Silenzio," a memorial piece commissioned by the Dutch, first played in 1965 on the 20th anniversary of Holland's liberation. It's been the concluding piece of the memorial concert ever since. The year is 2014. The soloist is a 13-year-old Dutch girl, Melissa Venema, backed by André Rieu and his orchestra (the Royal Orchestra of the Netherlands). This beautiful concert piece is based upon the original version of Taps and was composed by Italian composer Nino Rossi.



Two movies fell in my A-Z watch, both keepers, Shazam, Fury of the Gods, new addition to library, better on this second watch, and back to the alphabet with Divergent, teenage angst in a dystopian future.

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RECURRING CHARACTERS:                                     

ABFA – Amazing Best Family Athlete - my daughter in law; BR3 – Blog Reader #3 – granddaughter #3; BRS - Blog Reader the Sequel - second granddaughter; Cantankerous Friend – friend since grade school who likes to argue about everything, poses as radical leftist to attract women; CRC - Connecticut Riverboat Captain – another close friend from high school, renowned sailor of the big river; Curbside Girls – close friends of my daughter acquired during him her single days in Brooklyn; Deckzilla – our backyard deck which grew to monstrous dimensions once my wife got involved in planning; Favorite Panamanian - the wife (of course); FBR - First Blog Reader - first granddaughter; First Friday – celebrations to mark the First Friday of the Week; Great Aunt - my elder sister; Keene Friends 1 & 2 – friends since high school from my home town of Keene, NH; Kindergarten Friend – friend since kindergarten whom I reunited with after many years; Maine and Virginia Musqueteras – two close friends of my wife – her US sisters, my wife is the 3rd Musquetera (musketeer); Namesake Nephew – son of Great Aunt and Soxfather named after me; Neighborhood Mafioso - wife's close friend and Panamanian mafia member; PanaGals – female relatives /friends of my wife from Panama; Panamanian/Latin Mafia – inevitable group of Latino friends my wife accumulates wherever we have lived & their spouses; PCR - Pittsburgh College Roommate– high school friend, also a “Minor Celebrity” in Pittsburgh; PCR+1 - Pittsburgh College Roommate’s wife; Riggins - also known as the Grandpuppy, son's dog; Soxfather - my brother in law; Tia Loca – wife’s younger sister; Wingman – my son in law; Wingmom – Wingman’s mom, of course

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