I haven’t been on Frail Deeds recently
because we’ve had to deal with some health issues here in Panama while the
family Stateside dealt with a passing. Last Friday my Favorite Panamanian was
back in David to spend some time with her mom while our time in Panama is
dwindling. She got up late at night and noticed light emanating from her mother’s
bedroom. She went in to check and found her mother had fallen while going into
the bathroom. My wife got her to the hospital first thing in the morning and
the initial diagnosis was truly scary. After a couple x-rays in the emergency room,
it was initially thought she had fractured her femur near the hip joint as well
as a couple broken ribs. Keep in mind, my mother-in-law is 93 years old.
Tuesday Dinner Back in David
She was eventually seen by an orthopedic
surgeon who confirmed the broken ribs but said there was no femur break. Since
that was the scariest part of that preliminary analysis, a collective relief breath
was taken. She was admitted for treatment for a couple days and returned home
on Monday. Hospital stays in Panama are a lot different than in the States. Family
members are expected to spend the night in the room with the patient. My wife did
that over the weekend and returned to Las Lajas late on Sunday. Even though her
mom was back home, a caregiver was still needed to spend the night in her room
with her as she recovers. My Favorite Panamanian and her sisters are rotating
the duty. My wife’s night was Tuesday, and I
volunteered to return to David with her because I wanted to see how my mother-in-law
was doing and didn’t want my wife to have to make multiple trips back and forth
from the beach. I was glad that I did because her mom seemed very chipper and
happy to see us. She has a breathing exercise machine she must use every hour.
My brother-in-law and I moved a recliner into the bedroom, so whomever has the duty
has a place to sleep. Since I am virtually no help whatsoever, outside of
situational security, in the healthcare field, my wife sent me to the movies to
get me out of her hair. I saw two movies, both of which involved a capable young
lady fighting demonic forces. I knew at the first decapitation that my wife wasn’t
missing anything she would have wanted to see.
Recent Photo with her Grandkids, My Son and Daughter
Yesterday's Cloudy Sunset 
But With a Great Crew! 
And Some Late Entertainment
The news was less fortunate back in
the States. Wingman’s dad finally succumbed to a long period of failing health.
I’d only met Dan a couple times, but I could tell Wingman got a lot of his
outgoing personality from that source. The last few years have been a challenge
for Wingman as his dad made what turned out to be this final struggle with his
health. It’s at times like this I wish we were closer so I could drive down to
New Jersey to offer some support. Wingman is in a good place and said he’s glad
his dad has finally at peace. Please send some thoughts and prayers his way.
Wingman and his Dad
Wingman’s
daughter, the inimitable FBR, has continued her nascent ice hockey career. She’s
become a big fan of the New York women’s professional hockey franchise who plays
in nearby Newark. She once again made the big screen cheering on her team. It’s
obvious she’s a fan because in an accompanying photo I could hear her asking
her mom if they could stay after the game ended for the revealing of the top
three stars. Wingman also is now the proud owner of a hot pink Barbie fanny
pack for attending the game. So, there’s that.
FBR on the Big Screen
Finally, as I stated above the rainy
season is impending. I woke up this morning to find a steady rain falling on
the beach. I know, poor baby. We also had an earthquake this morning which we
could feel here even though it was centered up near the Costa Rican border.
Yep, may be time to head north. 
Rainy Morning
-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------RECURRING CHARACTERS: 
We're at the Blue Dot
ABFA – Amazing Best Family
Athlete – my daughter
in law; BR3 – Blog Reader #3 – granddaughter
#3; BRS - Blog Reader the Sequel -
second granddaughter; Cantankerous
Friend – friend since grade school who likes to argue about everything,
poses as radical leftist to attract women; CRC - Connecticut Riverboat Captain – another close friend from high
school, renowned sailor of the big river; Curbside
Girls – close friends of my daughter acquired during her single days in
Brooklyn; Czech Connection – Czech couple who’ve become good friends
along with their daughter (the Czech Shadow); Deckzilla – our backyard deck which grew to monstrous dimensions
once my wife got involved in planning; Favorite
Panamanian - the wife (of course); FBR
- First Blog Reader - first granddaughter; First Friday – celebrations to mark the First Friday of the Week; Great Aunt - my elder sister; Keene Friends 1 & 2 – friends since
high school from my home town of Keene, NH; Kindergarten Friend – friend since kindergarten whom I reunited
with after many years; Maine and
Virginia Musqueteras – two close friends of my wife – her US sisters, my
wife is the 3rd Musquetera (musketeer); Namesake Nephew – son of Great Aunt and Soxfather named after me; Neighborhood Mafioso - wife's close
friend and Panamanian mafia member; PanaGals
– female relatives /friends of my wife from Panama; Panamanian/Latin Mafia – inevitable group of Latino friends my wife
accumulates wherever we have lived & their spouses; PCR - Pittsburgh College Roommate – high
school friend, also a “Minor Celebrity” in Pittsburgh; PCR+1 - Pittsburgh College Roommate’s wife; Riggins - also known as the
Grandpuppy, son's dog; Seis Amigos - two couples from our condo complex
and my wife and I; Soxfather – my
brother-in-law (whom I miss more than I can ever explain); Tia Loca –
wife’s younger sister; Wingman – my
son in law; Upstairs Neighbors – American
couple and great friends who live in condo above us in Panama; Wingmom – Wingman’s mom, of course
